Married men dating other men

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Hammond told me of women friends who have had long affairs and only told one or two close women friends about them lest word get out.

The women got a lot from the affairs, she said, passion and a sense of themselves as sexual.

Regardless, there certainly seem to be biological advantages to being pre-approved.

Here are a few: found that women considered coupled men more attractive and spent significantly more time looking at pictures of potential suitors when they were depicted as married or in a relationship.

s even the evolutionary psychologists will tell you, though, life isn’t just chemicals.

Cultural and social attitudes come in and sweep everything off the table, Heneson says.

I know a lot of guys who seem trapped in sexless marriages. My wife tells me that none of her friends are interested in sex Do middle-aged, married women who are no longer interested in having sex with their husbands expect them to remain faithful?

They don’t want it thrown in their faces, but if they think about it for a bit, they have to realize that that intense need is being met somehow.

The common answer married men come up with for the deficit seems to be something everyone’s now wired for.

One friend had lamented the Internet’s effect on his life. I think that’s pathetic what I do, a healthy, successful, upbeat kind of guy. His wife has some idea of his sexual needs, and doesn’t really want to know more.

One man told me that when his wife wasn’t available, he snuck out to massage parlors in a primal state or watched porn.

Women do these things, too, but they do them completely in secret.

Marital passionand its absencewas a major theme in the responses to my e-mail.

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