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"I am a leader over a group of 100 grown men in my church.
I used 2 of your get to know you games to help build unity and help them break out of their "shells" to interact with one another.
But first things first, it’s important we cover the core traits women find attractive in a man. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way discover how to master attraction in a short space of time) Ok so let’s get started! Status is determined by two things – how you present yourself and how you behave around women.
Although some factors (genetic makeup and wealth) are somewhat out of our control, there are many small changes you can make to appear like a man of status.
Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome. Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit.
By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way. You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work? Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. ” If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.
If you want to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.
And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. Be sure to visit the experts’ sites to learn how they can help you become better at dating.
For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time? NOTE: We also asked 31 Pick Up Artists how to pick up girls in 7 different situations in a parallel interview here, and then combined the results from both interviews to make this fun infographic on how to talk to women and build attraction!
So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life. The ability to excite a girl is like a drug – give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more 😉 Ok so those are the 5 traits!